On group pages, checkbox to make public/private is missing

Committee or Team: 
Web Design
Drupal configuration
Drupal 6 Live
Walt Daniels
Some postings to Pubs are public that should be private, e.g. http://www.nynjtc.org/content/map-competition All posting to the group are configured to be private unless the checkbox to make pubic is checked. However that checkbox is missing from the edit form, so it is unknown whether the page is public or private (by testing it is public). Found this: http://drupal.org/node/355549#8 which says there may be problems with module ordering (fairly old bug report). Checking out system og weight = 6203 and og_access weight =6201 which is wrong so I changed it to 6204. No effect. Other bug reports imply that the weight ordering has been fixed by ours was wrong. Caches cleared and permissions rebuilt with no effect. Buggy on test also. Another hint: http://drupal.org/node/383316